By Dave Goodwin (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #215) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 1:54 pm: |
Sunday, May 17th, 2008, a day I will never forget. As we strolled the three blocks from the parking area to the gymnasium at Drake University, I thought about the upcoming event and whether I would be able to hold back my tears. It would be difficult, and I’m sure no one would blame me if I happened to shed one or two, but I was going to attempt to maintain my dignity. It was a beautiful day; sunny with a slight breeze. The women folk were all complaining about how cold it was, but I found it quite pleasant.
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By Yo MO - Meet me at the 3Day in Atlanta (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #3548) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 2:09 pm: |
Daggum it Dave - now my tears have come too. Congratulations!!!!
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By Jim McPeak (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1512) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 2:14 pm: |
You know Dave, I can relate to this story well. Many years ago, in a kingdom called Penn State University, I dropped my daughter off at her dorm at East Hall. As I was unloading the van of her meager freshman belongings, I was fine. However, as soon a I walked across the parking lot to drive back to Philadelphia, the deluge of tears began for me. As I took Megan, Ryan, and Tim to college, it became, "OK, I'll see you in a couple of weeks." LOL "Don't party too hard, and remember, you are on the four year plan."
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By Dave Goodwin (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #216) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 2:33 pm: |
Jim,
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By Dave Goodwin (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #217) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 2:37 pm: |
Thanks Mara. It's been a great journey.
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By A rose by any other name..aka RosAnne (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #2390) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 2:37 pm: |
Dave, what a wonderful way of sharing your "little girl" with us. It certainly sounds like she will more than just alright! Congratulations to both of you!
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By Linda ** (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1215) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 3:26 pm: |
Okay my tears started at "I thought about the upcoming event and whether I would be able to hold back my tears."
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By Yo MO - Meet me at the 3Day in Atlanta (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #3550) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 4:11 pm: |
Dave - yes the best is yet to come. Stephie is "on her own" even though she is still in school. She's in Grad School and doing her research work at WHOI so it's kind of a two-fer. Never mind that she is now 872.54 miles away...NOW. And in August she'll be much further away - like Africa... But yes - this is a great adventure for her and for us. We have one who will be a senior in HS this fall and then it starts all over.
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By Freddie (BonaireTalk Deity - Post #10238) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 4:20 pm: |
Dave Dang tell me that is a chapter in the book... I have tears of joy and a proudness only a parent who has gone through that ritual has... I remember ironing my sons robe with tears of happiness and joy.. WAHHHHHHHHHH
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By Dave Goodwin (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #218) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 4:34 pm: |
Freddie..... a funning thing.
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By Eileen - going somewhere... eventually.. (BonaireTalk Deity - Post #12592) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 4:38 pm: |
Congratulations!
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By Freddie (BonaireTalk Deity - Post #10241) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 4:40 pm: |
Dave there comes a time also that they are too old to be your children and then become your friends..
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By Gail T. (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #2909) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 4:41 pm: |
It's the same for the Mom's of the daughters and sons. I guess we just don't have to bother to hide the tears! You write a good story!
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By Dave Goodwin (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #219) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 4:55 pm: |
Gail,
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By Gail T. (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #2914) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 5:14 pm: |
Dave, Dave, Dave - there was no offence! I was just trying to express that I'm been there and felt the same pride and emotion, and didn't care if I teared up! (John would of course, but as he's getting older, is more accepting of getting emotional!)
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By Kathy Hall - Bonaire in September 08 (BonaireTalk Deity - Post #10792) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 5:16 pm: |
Dave, beautiful recounting of the last day your daughter was an official "kid". Are you also a writer of some kind? Sounds like a chip off the old block to me!
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By Freddie (BonaireTalk Deity - Post #10242) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 5:25 pm: |
absolutely not easier for Moms.. OMG no I couldn't look at his picture for about 6 months after he left for college.. and I worked in a place that regularly showed a video of him with the residents that I worked with. I almost had to go home the first time I realised it was Jon.. I was so lonely without him.. he is my soulmate and always has been.. the first time he took his car from LI NY to Norfolk VA a 6 hour drive.. I wallpapered his entire room to pass the time so I wouldn't be a basket case with him on the road... egad I am glad those days are over!!
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By La Reina de la Salsa (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #2931) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 7:04 pm: |
Congratulations to you and your daughter, brought memories when my son graduated from College and the Police Academy - yes I had tears reading your post
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By PegiSue* (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #4756) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 7:15 pm: |
Another beautifully written experience in life from Dave...
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By Donna in the Poconos (Extraordinary BonaireTalker - Post #1891) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 7:34 pm: |
Dave...well I guess you KNOW that I'M crying!! I TOTALLY understand....Congratulations to you and your wife and your daughter! We done good!!
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By Spring is BOOMing! (Supreme BonaireTalker - Post #6984) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 9:00 pm: |
Very well done Dave. I had to wait till I got home to read this - couldn't cry and get work done at the same time
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By Brad (Experienced BonaireTalker - Post #792) on Monday, May 19, 2008 - 11:13 pm: |
Touching story Dave, thanks for sharing. Congratulations!
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